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What are the keys to surviving divorce, seeing the kids and keeping your sanity?

Assuming that you want to divorce, the most important thing is to look to the future and not dwell on the past; focusing on the future makes it easier to get through this process and try to have a better life. People who are angry and determined to make up for years of pain and suffering rarely find their relief in the courthouse.

Two other keys are to be sure to see your children, and at least try to get along with your soon-to-be ex-spouse, especially with regard to the children. Those who concentrate on them realize there is plenty of time for everyone to see the kids and for the kids to have good, healthy relationships with both parents.

People need to realize that even if it’s not your parenting time, there is nothing to stop you from going to the kids’ activities, like school functions, baseball or soccer games, or even to drive them to school; things like that. There are many ways to put in parenting time, and for both parents to be regularly and heavily involved in the lives of the kids, and doing that usually works better for everyone. When it comes to keeping your sanity, divorce is one of the more stressful things people deal with; getting along makes it easier.

There is a lot on the line in a divorce, such as your finances, your children and your future, so a certain amount of stress should be expected, so surround yourself with positive people who want you to have the best future possible. There will be times when you have to fight, but you’ll achieve the best outcome for you and your children through brokered solutions and deals, and you’re best off surrounded by positive people, not negative people who enjoy fireworks.

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